All preschoolers are naturally active, impulsive, oppositional, sometimes defiant, and impatient. ADHD is a neurodevelopmental disorder, so how can you tell if your child’s behavior is typical or outside the range of typical development?
How Often Are You Getting Calls from Preschool?
Are you getting calls about your child’s behavior a couple of times a month? Or is it multiple times a week? Typical preschoolers push boundaries and may get in trouble occasionally. However, preschoolers with ADHD are more disruptive and get into things they shouldn’t much more often than their peers. Preschool teachers are concerned because they frequently can’t sit in one place and have problems with impulse control.
How is Your Child Doing with Circle Time?
Preschoolers with ADHD often have difficulty with circle time. The teacher is interacting with the whole class and not directly with your child. Kids with ADHD have difficulty in these settings and their attention wanders. They do much better with one-on-one learning situations in which they get immediate feedback.
Can Your Child Follow One or Two-Step Directions Without Getting
Preschoolers should be able to follow one- and two-step directions, such as, “Hang up your coat and put your shoes away.” Sure, there are some “typical” preschoolers who won’t follow instructions because they’re feeling defiant. But kids with ADHD often have more problems with working memory than other children. They may want to do what you’ve asked, and may begin to attempt it, but get distracted by something else.
Does Your Child “Dart”?
Kids with ADHD will frequently “dart.” They’re flight risks. They’re supposed to be in line at school, moving from class to recess, but go in another direction or “dart” in a parking lot or store. This could be an indicator of your child’s distractibility and impulsivity.
Do You Avoid Taking Your Child Out in Public, Even to Casual,
Children with ADHD can’t sit still and will frequently run off and get into things. This can become so problematic that parents avoid taking them to family-friendly restaurants. Some refrain from short trips to the store because of this problem.
6. Could Your Child Have Another Health Condition?
For example, some behaviors are due to other issues but look like ADHD.
A) Difficulty Hearing can lead to not seeming to listen when spoken to directly
B) Language or Learning Issues can also lead to not seeming to listen or not following through on directions
C) Sleep Apnea or Poor Sleep can cause symptoms of hyperactivity and inattention. Preschoolers do not typically snore so if your child does, it could be a sign of sleep apnea
Have There Been Recent Acute Stressors for Your Child?
If you’re seeing an acute behavioral problem following a big family stressor, be patient and help your child deal with the stressor before considering ADHD. For example, a recent death in the family, an illness, a parental separation, or a new baby can all impact a child’s behavior negatively. Behavioral issues should be going on for six months or longer before we would consider ADHD as a possibility.
IT ALL TOGETHER
Remember that children with ADHD are often:
- More sensitive to environmental factors than other children
- Tend to do better in one-on-one situations with adults rather than in a group
- Act differently in the presence of an authority figure when rewards are present
- Despite this day-to-day or moment-to-moment variability in behaviors, children with ADHD show ADHD-related behaviors in more than one setting. Not just at home or just at school, but in both.
As you’re answering the above questions and considering whether your child’s behavior is consistent with ADHD or not, think about how often the behavior is happening and how intense it is. When a child has ADHD, there is a long-standing, high frequency, chronic nature to the concerning behaviors. If this is the case for your child, it may be time to contact Greenville ADHD Specialists, P.A.